OK. Things have cleared up a little bit. Cinderella No. 2 turned me down. Here's a paraphrased answer from her:
"OMG, I've got loads of stuff planned for D until the end of the month, I'm so sorry!!! This might not come out right- but I'm not fortunate enough to be one of those every other wknd single parents- D is with me 24/7 - the 'donor' is not involved. Unless I arrange for my sister to keep D or she has a sleepover, which lately all seem to take place here instead of her going to a friends, I don't get out. I tend to get out more during the summer because my sister is more willing to take her overnight due to the kids not being in school. I'm hoping to get out next month tho, sad I know, and not conducive to any type of social life, but not much I can do about it. I've never been to any of the fundraising galas like this, they look like a lot of fun! Have a good time...I usually post on FB if I'm going out because it's so rare...."
I would just take that as she have no desire to go out anywhere and she is jam-packed busy. I wouldn't ask her out again. You guys aren't at teh same place, it seems.
But I read somewhere else on here where she said she has no social life but lunch is better for her ---if that is the case, you could ask her to lunch sometime. Just say "Wanna grab lunch on X-day?" in about 2-3 weeks.
If it was only the above thing you posted--don'to ask her out again.
