Do Do Do Do - We had a T-Storm at 4:30 am when we were getting up to go on a long run?!?! We are 18" below normal on rainfall, rained once the past 3 months. Coincidence? Time to check my Nostradamus notes.
Nah, just call Al Gore and ask him to sneeze a few times. It'll be back to normal.
She sent me another email that she is trying to work an evening visit with the Co and she is not sleeping!
Well lets see what the problems may be. 1.you hook up with a guy that most likely really cares less about you and is a drunk and a loser. 2. you hastily move out of our house taking 2 dogs to a little apt near what you think is shangrala!! 3. Your job piles new work on you with the state which is always a mess. I would know I worked in Tallahassee 9 yrs. 4. Your pleaseing your S by staying with this clown (if that's true its really messed up!) 5.You may lose your H forever if you keep this crap up because I am getting stronger and your falling apart.
That may be a good list of why you can't sleep. I would not be able to sleep in that head either. Straighten your life out and find God!
[quote=Atossup] Well lets see what the problems may be. 1.you hook up with a guy that most likely really cares less about you and is a drunk and a loser. 2. you hastily move out of our house taking 2 dogs to a little apt near what you think is shangrala!! 3. Your job piles new work on you with the state which is always a mess. I would know I worked in Tallahassee 9 yrs. 4. Your pleaseing your S by staying with this clown (if that's true its really messed up!) 5.You may lose your H forever if you keep this crap up because I am getting stronger and your falling apart.quote]
5.You may loseLOST your H forever ifBECAUSE you keepKEPT this crap up because I am getting stronger and your falling apart.
Well lets see what the problems may be. 1.you hook up with a guy that most likely really cares less about you and is a drunk and a loser. 2. you hastily move out of our house taking 2 dogs to a little apt near what you think is shangrala!! 3. Your job piles new work on you with the state which is always a mess. I would know I worked in Tallahassee 9 yrs. 4. Your pleaseing your S by staying with this clown (if that's true its really messed up!) 5.You may lose your H forever if you keep this crap up because I am getting stronger and your falling apart.
5.You LOST your H forever if BECAUSE you KEPT this crap up.
Well lets see what the problems may be. 1.you hook up with a guy that most likely really cares less about you and is a drunk and a loser. 2. you hastily move out of our house taking 2 dogs to a little apt near what you think is shangrala!! 3. Your job piles new work on you with the state which is always a mess. I would know I worked in Tallahassee 9 yrs. 4. Your pleaseing your S by staying with this clown (if that's true its really messed up!) 5.You may lose your H forever if you keep this crap up because I am getting stronger and your falling apart.
5.You LOST your H forever if BECAUSE you KEPT this crap up.
"If you keep this crap up".... If suggests you're still putting up with this crap, If suggests you're still hanging in there waiting for her to change, If suggests that you're not moving on, If suggests that you're not decisive
Stop the "if's", be decisive, just make a decision and go with it, you'll be surprised how well this skill translates into other areas of your life.
Just do it. No "if's", No trying, No in-between indecisiveness.
would you not consider a marriage where one of the partners is having extramarital sex and telling someone else they love them and choosing to spend their time with them over their spouse effectively ended?
So you would then.
I am not of the school, of the uneffective, believe none of what they say and half of what they do.
If my wife told me she wants a divorce. Then I would think, she does not want to be married to me. I am not going to go through life thinking she really didn't mean it when she is walking in a different direction to me. That would be inefficient.
Likewise, if I slept with another girl, the assumption of exclusiveness would be ineffectual.
In effect, a signed piece of paper is a legal binding document. But I said 'I do' on Trapper Peak in a freak thunderstorm before a woman who owned 17 cats and didn't sign anything till I move to the state with the governor who paid people to have sex in front of him with follow by an election fueled by controversy over homosexual or gay marriage. legally?
Arnie, part of me? All of me. My W does not want a D. She would have files by now she has said. I love her dearly and have for a long time. The only thing that keeps us going throgh the years is the bond we have to each other. every problem we have had (and its been a few) has always been solved by the strong attraction and friendship we have. She is going back to Co next Thurs.
