How to cope w/no affection and physical contact

[soleil]

If you are that desperate, get a 'womans' toy and lots of batteries.

Joking aside,, you need to bite down on your emotions, and stop looking for scraps.

Hey now. That's no joke. Sometimes it helps. LOL.

Barb, what you are saying makes sense. It's very normal to feel the way you do. Did the A end or is he still actively involved in that?

[barbsing1]

Toys are just that - but I catch your drift.

Soleil - He has promised to end all contact with ex wife but only because it's not "fair" to anyone, not because he is ready to work on our relationship at this point. It's more than difficult to do, but I am going to have to trust his word on this one. I will no longer be actively "looking" to see if he in fact has ended it.

[soleil]

My apologies. I now remember your original thread...

Well Barb, I will tell you that if he can't tell you if he wants to work on your M, then you need to decide what is best for YOU.