There is nothing wrong with it at all....The mistake has been made, however instead of going to his W and stating he screwed up, he is shifting the blame onto TKD, her affair 10 years ago, her, the OM etc...Until he realizes he made a huge error in judgement and actually starts there, he will continue to spin in circles.
He doesn't realize he has "control" of where this goes...He is all over the map...Going dark and LRT and dropping the rope and dating etc... Pick one, learn as much as you can to see how it will affect your situation, and apply it.
Sorry for the t/j
(((Hugs)))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~