It takes a bigger man to understand why they would be willing to share their wife with another man in the first place and how to calmly and rationally explain to her that he doesnt want to play that game anymore.
Each & every action Pen has taken thus far, has been done with some sense of control...
Whether it be finances, the son, the house, kicking her out etc....
None of it has been along the lines of "Will this move her closer or further from me"...
IMO it has all been based on emotion and anger, and it shows in his posts so I am sure it shows to her as well.
He needs to calm down, do a reality check and reign in his emotions before he pushes her so far there is no hope of her returning.
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
