She sent me another email that she is trying to work an evening visit with the Co and she is not sleeping!

Well lets see what the problems may be.
1.you hook up with a guy that most likely really cares less about you and is a drunk and a loser.
2. you hastily move out of our house taking 2 dogs to a little apt near what you think is shangrala!!
3. Your job piles new work on you with the state which is always a mess. I would know I worked in Tallahassee 9 yrs.
4. Your pleaseing your S by staying with this clown (if that's true its really messed up!)
5.You may lose your H forever if you keep this crap up because I am getting stronger and your falling apart.

That may be a good list of why you can't sleep. I would not be able to sleep in that head either. Straighten your life out and find God!