What things do u refer to that says she doesn't think that I'm leading?
This.
Originally Posted By: Db9
Issues arose about me not listening to things she wanted, like moving to another state and that i made her feel like she was just taking up space here. She also said she always felt like she had to make me do things, like propose, buy our house etc.
Originally Posted By: Db9
As far as her contacting him it seemed it was a text here or a phone call there, maybe once a month with some months being skipped.
She came to me and told me about the affair so how is me bringing up the past about a little more contact they had going to make a difference? Thanks for responding so fast.
But she promised this.
Originally Posted By: Db9
I confronted her at the time and she said she was sorry, said she would never talk to him again, tell him not to call, etc. etc.
And she has been apologizing profusely since.
"There is no more apologies necessary. You promised to never talk to him again and I know that you have not kept your word. Until you do so, we have nothing to talk about. I need to decide what I want from this marriage."