what do you expect to get out of talking to someone? you're thinking .. you're going to find a more interesting person, right? more interesting than who? your wife? is that it? you're trying to see if there's someone out there better than your wife? does it matter if she's better? what if she's different? is that bad?
because you are still 'hopeful', your intention to talk to other women will only lead you to comparing them to your wife .. with you saying .. my wife is better. she's smarter. she has a cuter laugh .. ugh, she doesn't crinkle her nose like that when she smiles, it's so unattractive. my wife laughed at that joke and she didn't. my wife is also anti-republican .. not like miss republican here.
is that fair to the other person?
Thanks D4MIL, you always make me think.
Maybe I am wrong, but I don't think I'm looking for someone better than W, just someone who is interested in ME, because she doesn't seem to be anymore and maybe it is time to move on.
What about women who say they want to date, but nothing serious? There are women on match and other sites with that type of profile.
is that fair to the other person?
