Hey Kerry. I agree, if I was only on one, it would be Match. I don't remember how much eHarmony is. It works totally differently, after you answer those million questions they only send you supposed "matches". So you don't do the searching and weeding the way you do in Match. Then there's a structured communication format that is supposed to give you a chance to know more before you start emailing. I am not totally sold one way or the other.