Originally Posted By: Db9
She knows I have done it before, a year ago, but she doesn't know that was what brought me partially to my current decision.


She has complained in the past that you were not leading.

Take control of this situation. Let her know why you asked no contact. Make it about the A.

"I know that you have not stopped contacting the OM. Until you do, we have nothing to talk about."

She is watching you and trying to get your attention in several ways. Use it to your atvantage.


Enjoy the Silence