*WH has had D 10 and S 7 over 2x in 7 weeks. D 13 thinks he's an idiot and refuses to go.
*WH & OW still on again/off again. How do I know? WH texts DDs frequently when he's home alone in the evenings; ignores them for days on end when he's with OW.
*OW supposed to defend her dissertation (the one WH is undoubtedly writing for her) and leave in Dec. I don't know where she's doing her post doc (3 year rotation), but if it's with WH, I will file for divorce and move on.
So...I'm still having good days and bad days. I'm getting LOTS of work done, but I have days of EXTREME resentment over his "not my problem" attitude towards child care, household maintenance, budget issues, etc. He's decided I'M the problem, so I get 100% of the responsibility for everything he can't bothered with? WTF?!! Don't I get a say in this?
I sang "I am woman, hear me roar" while I mowed the lawn for the first time in 15 years (after having to watch 2 YouTube videos on how to attach the grass catcher and how to start the damn thing!), but then hurt my back the next day pulling out the window a/c units and moving them to the attic for the winter. When WH found out I'd done both, he said in his I'm-never-wrong voice, "I didn't think it was cold enough to pull out the a/c's."
Sigh. Still in full MLC mode. 4 years and counting...
