You are still trying to hold on to something, some last thread of control. You may be trying to keep the X away from the other man by using your daughter. Work on yourself and changing you. Detach and let her go. There is a good article on detachment on the Livestrong site. It will help. Your wife X will only see your current behavior as more of the same old GKM. She ran away from this GKM to the new M stop stoking the fire under the guise of protecting D4. She will only hear your X complain about you. You may also pick up Controlling people by Patricia Evans. It taught me more about myself and how I treated my soon to be X. God Bless
Joe
H:37 W:34 D11,S8,S6 Together 19 years M:10 Bomb:4/09
