Originally Posted By: KEM
Do the best for yourself and your kids. Don't know that I could get past an affair either. I agree that there is no excuse for an affair. Stay strong.


Thanks KEM, maybe I could work through it, maybe I couldn't...we'll never know. It's her lack of respect that finally pushed me.

When my 5 y/o has to tell me about his Halloween parade at school, and tells me about his fundraisers, and she won't....it's just too much.

She won't meet me 1/2 way, the 5 y/o wants to know what Santa is going to do, are we going to be together for Christmas morning, etc.

She is worried about POSOM, that's it.

I'm sick of the lies, cheating, etc.

I have my kids, and I am sure as heck keeping my dignity.

She wants out, won't talk, there is the door.

I often wonder, do they feel guilt? Will they ever feel guilt?

M-38
W-37
T-16,M-11 (Oct 30,1999)
S-5
S-2
Wife left 7/4/2010

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