Yes, throw it out the window. Anything you get from him right now isn't going to be real anyway. It is hard, but you can do this. You deserve better than to get crumbs when his mind is elsewhere (OW).
Don't be surprised if the kiss goodbye and hand squeeze go away also.
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M39 W41 Two children WAW bomb dropped 11/7/09 Piecing Aug 10 - Nov 10 No longer piecing...Nov 10 Separation Jan 11 EA ends again Feb 11 Piecing attempt #2, Mar 11