No she has alot to regain my trust and I know I have to regain hers for the letting the disconnect happen even thogh she let that happen also.
I think that's the standard way to 'fix' these things...
You did not break the trust, she did. While you may be responsible for some things that have contributed to the breakdown in the relationship, it doesn't mean that the two are in any way comparable. If the M takes a path towards reconciliation, then coming to terms with and acknowledging your part will play a role. At this point, it is up to her to earn your trust - and whether you grant it or not is completely your choice.
Hey thanks! It was a hard weekend but I did let her go. Did not even argue with her, even helped. It was selfish of her. Now she tells me she hardly goes on FB anymore. I guess I cured her of that!
things are still way too fresh and recent in your situation to assume things have changed for good, keep doing what you're doing and let her be.
I would take a break from the counseling, tell her you've decided you need time to think about what you want now, because you're not sure about anything anymore and just leave it at that.
No she has alot to regain my trust and I know I have to regain hers for the letting the disconnect happen even thogh she let that happen also.
I think that's the standard way to 'fix' these things...
You did not break the trust, she did. While you may be responsible for some things that have contributed to the breakdown in the relationship, it doesn't mean that the two are in any way comparable. If the M takes a path towards reconciliation, then coming to terms with and acknowledging your part will play a role. At this point, it is up to her to earn your trust - and whether you grant it or not is completely your choice.
WOW!
I agree with Arnie, if it rains because of this, it's your fault, I hope you know that!
No she has alot to regain my trust and I know I have to regain hers for the letting the disconnect happen even thogh she let that happen also.
I think that's the standard way to 'fix' these things...
You did not break the trust, she did. While you may be responsible for some things that have contributed to the breakdown in the relationship, it doesn't mean that the two are in any way comparable. If the M takes a path towards reconciliation, then coming to terms with and acknowledging your part will play a role. At this point, it is up to her to earn your trust - and whether you grant it or not is completely your choice.
WOW!
I agree with Arnie, if it rains because of this, it's your fault, I hope you know that!
;-)
Do Do Do Do - We had a T-Storm at 4:30 am when we were getting up to go on a long run?!?! We are 18" below normal on rainfall, rained once the past 3 months. Coincidence? Time to check my Nostradamus notes.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
