Wow! One lit ol update and I get prompt responses from four great DB vets! Thank you!
Ha! Was really trying to stay in the peace zone, Jeff and JTB but then H brings up R talk last night!
Long convo-brief synopsis: H doesn`t like limboland anymore(he`s in guestroom) and doesn`t like legal separation looming so he wants us to work together on the marriage.
I told him I just wasn`t sure about what to do. Honestly I`m undecided as I had got over the grief of our marriage ending and had let him go. He`s disappointed.
And now I don`t know if his reasons are enough to reestablish a marriage. He has been very angry, abusive in the past and I risk that happening again if I go back into M with him.Nothing about his wanting me or caring for me.
He wants me to make up my mind `soon` but he`s not putting an actual deadline on it.
I figure I waited long enough for him to work through his stuff. I don`t want to be rushed. Legal ppl will wait.I`m just not sure of H`s motives for wanting back in.
Last year I`d have rushed up and hugged him. This year I`m cagier.
Hey Mach! Good to hear from you!Lousy PC at home, little time at work but I will catch up with you just as soon as I can!Hope you`re doing well!
Love ya, Cat!You`re so right-undoing some of the stuff I`ve learnt in MLC is probably what`s needed right now;I`ve got too independent AND too happy on my own!
