My Situation - any thoughts or ideas

[Pensacolabroken]

Get back up. Dust yourself off.

I followed some advice.. I stopped persuing when I was looking up cell phone busters.. and I thought to myself at 230 am.. this is F*(@ ing stupid.. where is MY self respect. then I did my 180's went to MC and stayed cool and calm. I waited.. then I struck.. I told her to get out.... and I am sticking to my guns.. she has said everything from "why am I doing to this?" (love that one honey, same way I felt when you told me you want a divorce) to there is "zero chance our marriage will be recovered" to asking me if "I kept or cancelled the marriage counseling appointment"

I have gotten the effect I wanted... I have DONE something unexected and different and it feels GOOD.

try it.