Yes it's ME (robx) and I'm looking for advice...

[gr8 day 2B alive]

robx thanks for the update.

If you have any questions please feel free to ask them

You said she had A's, did you get that info from her?

Was the "not as bad as you think" really bad?

How are you coping with the inforamtion?

I know my W had a PA with OM after we separated. It was my turning point. I felt everything you did and acted like you when I had enough. All the feelings about not finding some else, being a great dad for the kids, getting involed more with activities...

I realized too that I was a good catch and OW wanted to date me the 2nd and 3rd time. Life was awesome. I was truely OK with W leaving.

The only difference I see is my W physically left a year ago.
I couldn't do the toughlove the way you did.

I decided to push for mediation, the selling of the house and such.
It wasn't until the reality of mediation she then called me to work on things. I didn't bite, I was so calm and collective during that phone convo.

That was a month ago. I continued moving forward with my own life.
She has not called or approached me to talk again.

So I contacted the mediator yesterday to push through our agreement so I can take it to file.

I am not bluffing. It seems when faced with the crisis and the reality of our sitch, my W takes action.

I will not go back to melty man either. I need to know she's willing to do the work.
I would like an apology from her and her to persue me.
She hasn't done anything yet.

I don't know what she's waiting for but I am going to continue to move on.


Thanks again, gr8