Checking in to say 'hi'. I want to encourage you to keep moving forward. From what you are reporting it sounds as though the pieces of a new R with H are slowly moving into place. From a distance it looks like a "whole house renovation" in which you wait to put a wall up in one room because you know that in 3 months, when the custom order bathtub arrives, you will need to move it through that room to put it into place (hope you understand what I'm trying to say). H needs to feel comfortable that moving toward you is not going to cut him off from others (e.g. MIL and FIL).
I have not been particularly religious through my adult life (I was raised in the Christian faith), but I have seen things happen in my situation that I never in a million years thought could happen........these are like miracles to me and have renewed my faith in God. I think that he is behind the scenes orchestrating these events for both of us. Keep your eyes on your higher power and listen to your inner voice.
