Newbie, H left and wants D, please help

[Pensacolabroken]

Sky,

I understand. My first 18 Days were miserable. I went from 198 lbs to 179 lbs. I didnt turn on music, didnt watch tv, I just retreated into my soul.

Then I started reading the threads and Gucci and robx and Coach and Gut and Serenity and Sol, PH and Pook and others helped me see that dammit it is NOT my fault. and you really do have choices.. I focus on John Wayne.. what would he do.. he would put a boot in the ass... I also use the Mantra of Tom Hanks from League of their Own.. THERES NO CRYING IN BASEBALL!!!

So Stand UP. Stop Crying. Get a PLAN. Be consistent (hardest part) and tell the WAS you are tired of their crap. SET A BOUNDRY and Stick to your guns.. the Duke would!