On the complete transparency I think I understand my definition: No more FB contact verified deletion of OM No more walk away and look at Cell phone behavior Full Disclosure on Who, when, where (save the Why for MC)
Proof is the difficult part.
She still has not broken off contact with him nor stated she will. She is still in the denial stun phase that I want her OUT and I am moving on...
I am standing behind that this is NON NEGOTIABLE. and more importantly it is HER choice.
I will look for the opportunity to re-iterate the boundry again.
She has a big decision to make this weekend. She has her girls night out on Friday and her "i need my space" night on Saturday so that is 2 days away from me and I told her that I know she is going to be with the OM. She got defensive and stated that she probably wont even go to the Girls night Out now.. I told her to do whatever.
Me? I am making plans to spend Saturday on the water with my Son and we are boating over for Cheeseburgers. and I am REALLY looking forward to that time to spend with him!
M:42 W:39 S:9 M:20 T:25 D-bomb: 30 Sep 10 Wife changed her mind: 31 Oct 10 Working on it: 31 Oct 10