WAW 20 years and wants out

[gutwrenching]

Pensacola - wow, you are doing great. I would be careful how times I reiterated I want you out...you don't want to seem mean, just confident. Your needs will change, at least that is what I experienced...and yes my needs became greater.

Complete transparency is key...again learn from others mistakes (mine included)...

If you get the opportunity, I would re-iterate what it would take for you to CONSIDER allowing her back...and then clearly state the boundary(ies)