Originally Posted By: Albuquerque

Out of habit, I introduced him as my H and then instantly regretted that.


I don't think this is a bad thing, it is a fact......

he is still your husband.

It wasn't like you were looking for an opportunity to use those words. If you stop and think about it if you were with a friend you would introduce them as

"this is my friend, XXXXXXXXXX"

We always introduce people based on how we know them. It would have been more unusual to only introduce him by his name.

I did the same thing with my wife a couple of weeks ago at an open house at my son's school. I paid it no attention, but it did remind me of the situation.

You are doing great and you do have many positives going on right now and you are also doing a good job in not putting the pressure on you H.

Cheers


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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

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