Way to go! I'm right there with you too. It's crazy when the lightbulb goes on and we see our Hs as they really are, warts and all, and how it all fits with family patterns. Trust yourself, believe yourself now. You and I both lived with blinders on for a long time, wishing and believing we could change things by being more lovable. Becoming away of abuse that we've suffered over the years is a hard pill to swallow, but it is necessary. Better now than twenty years from now.
