Well it has been a few days on and I thought that I would just let my thoughts wander.....
Up to now she has been very angry with me since I told her that I could not trust her again.
A week ago she was upset and tearful and asked to speak to my boys. She said she was upset because she was missing my boys. She was going to see them in less than an hour and have them with her for the next 3 days.... Why the urgency to speak to the boys..? I do not believe that the reason for her ringing was that she was missing the boys. I do not know the reason, but I do know she was lying. I am confident in my knowledge of her to know when she is economical with the truth.....
Since this day she has returned to being helpful, and is not angry with me.
Mind you, she was angry with me on Sunday as I had not contacted her to find out when we would swap over the boys clothes for school on Monday. I said that I would have rung her whilst I was at her daughters, and picked them up late pm. She 'planned' to be out till late pm, and I should have asked first....
Is she upset because she has to make the first move in planning....? I always was laid back with planning, and followed her as I had no preference...Perhaps she wants to 'follow' a decision maker...
I don't care, to be truthful. Making decisions is not a prob for me - I tell a full Warehouse what to do - it is my job to be in control. But I try and allow her the option of expressing herself....
I know she has problems facing her with her course, home and bit of fluff...( see an odd post back), but she is being 'less' angry with me.
I see no difference yet in her overall attitude... She has not initiated contact, ect, but I do sense a difference...
What is the best / correct mind set to follow....
Regards Gyn....
Still collecting clouds..
Cause all of the stars, Have faded away, Just try not to worry, You'll see them someday. Take what you need, And be on your way and, Stop crying your heart out.
