You are welcome. I forget sometimes if I've already said all of the stuff about how a woman gets to fantazing. Not sure which comes first in every case,the fantasy or OM, but they are connected! When the fantasy is attached to a man.....then it is her dream world that she created that's hard to let go and turn around and face her reality and decide to live in it.

When I use terms like "dream world", I mean it was her escape from reality. She was buying into her dream and believing she could have a brand new beginning with another man and her troubles would disappear and automatic happiness would come.

That's why it is good that she is beginning to see some tarnish to show up in OM.

I have every confidence in you and that you will be able to overcome this dreadful time in your M. That fact that she is willing....well, that's a huge part of piecing.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!