Just went through your thread. As said, what seems counterintuitive may actually be the best way to go. I have a hard time doing the counterintuitive thing, but it is what seems to draw my W closer. It's natural to want to chase, pursue, beg, etc. etc. - but look in the mirror when you do it - its really not attractive. Be confident and stay strong. If you need to vent or just need some support, this is a great place to come.
