Buddy, you need to talk to a therapist. Straighten out why you are seeking other women. Then, be honest and sincere to your W.

You've cheated once and your made the move to do it again. If you've not been totally honest with your W about the first A and not worked out your issues, then why should she give you another chance?

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together:10 M:5 No kids
ILYBINILWY 7/28/10
OW found 8/15
A exposed 8/31
I Move 9/3
Dark 10/1