Wonder what happens when you reward disrespectful behavior like cheating and other forms of abuse by trying to be more loving?
Abuse SHOULD NOT ever be rewarded...that is not biblical...it should be called SIN just as it truly is...love is a gift from God and those who abuse it; don't deserve it... I was "rewarded" for my kindness with being made a prisoner in my home; having my stepdaughter disrespect me and my abusive husband GET WORSE...the only "reward" that he should receive for his abuse is MY ABSENCE...he has that now...
Last edited by freespirit; 10/20/1001:37 AM.
M -12 Years 1 9 y son (w/me) S-Nov 2009 (and LOVING it; will NEVER go back!) D-soon