She admitted to the affair...said it was over...I do not know if it really is... I spend more time here on DB now because over on MB they rant and rave about exposing everybody... I am trying to save our marriage, and I believe that it is in our best interest to keep this between husband and wife... I will only tell our children that we are seperated and seeing a MC to work on our marriage... Our children will see this when they drive up to the house a week before T-Day, so I need to tell them by the 1st week of November... I do value everyones opinions, and I hope folks can learn to appreciate small differences on here... We need this forum to exchange ideas on what works and what does not work... Please continue all the great work you all do here... It is appreciated...