I'm probably the worst one about trying to read into what she is thinking. I just hope that the situation is not something completely different then what I've posted. I do have a tendency to focus on the things that I think are positive from her, and the things that make me question her beliefs in our separation.
Stop trying to read her right now. You are here and there are folks who will translate everything for you. Just post factually what's going on with your sitch.
Coach likes to point out that women's words reflect their feelings but their actions speak for their thinking.
It's confusing until you get enough experience to put it all together.
I'm still learning.
Alright pookie, im going to let everyone here give me their reads instead of me doing it.
While reading my thread today, i was given the suggestion of telling my wife ways that i appreciate her. Something i might not have done in the past. She was doing something financially that she didnt have to do if she didnt want to so i sent her a text saying "I just wanted to tell you thanks for helping out financially. I appreciate it, You're being really responsible and you deserve my appreciation." She then replies that she is going downstairs to do it after she gets off a conference call. She then texts i help make the debt, im going to help pay for it. 15 minutes later she calls my phone and says she's on her way downstairs to the bank and wanted to know if i got her text messages. About that time my phone starts to cut out because im working in the field, so i just tell myself that if she wants to talk, she'll call back im not going to worry about it. A few minutes later i get a text saying "I didnt know if your text was sincere or more about me not going to the bank yet, I just made the deposit. I replied a few mins later that it was sincere and she said well thank you:). I left it at that. Alright everybody, let me have it.
