I'm probably the worst one about trying to read into what she is thinking. I just hope that the situation is not something completely different then what I've posted. I do have a tendency to focus on the things that I think are positive from her, and the things that make me question her beliefs in our separation.
Stop trying to read her right now. You are here and there are folks who will translate everything for you. Just post factually what's going on with your sitch.
Coach likes to point out that women's words reflect their feelings but their actions speak for their thinking.
It's confusing until you get enough experience to put it all together.