I don't know how to take advice like this. My husband is divorcing me. I wish we could work it out. He has the right to divorce me. I recognize that. He does not have a right to chase me out of town. Am I crazy?
No, you're not crazy. I firmly disagree with the counselor who told you that. You H can D you and has that right but him telling you, demanding even, that you must move out of town is completey and utterly ridiculous.
If you CHOOSE to move, you can, but it shouldn't be because someone else is TELLING you to. Dictating for you to go.
As for gossip and talk... people are always going to smack, no matter where you are, no matter where you live, and so on and so on. That is just a fact of life.
