Now, I just don`t know. Don`t know if I can trust him. Don`t know if he really wants me. Don`t know whether I should continue with legal separation or not.
Hey woman...
Brief here, more in an email...
I have told you before that trust doesn't come easy. Even with someone new. You know what I have been through so you know I do really mean this.
Don't let your fear of it maybe not working, your trust maybe being misplaced keep you from taking the chance if it is something you want.
I think a part of you does want it. Or you wouldn't be questioning yourself.
No one says it will be easy. Crap, the rebuilding, is harder than the breakdown. You actually have to learn to undo some of the things that you learned to save yourself from the MLC.
But you will have to do that with ANY person.
We learn so much coming here. How to detatch, GAL, validate, and how to make ourselves stronger and not let things affect us, because that is how we survive the MLC spew.
Those things, while great for surviving MLC, are not always so great in an R.
I am so glad you are back my friend.
I have missed you bunches.
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
