The second one told me that I was making a mistake by not moving out of state ASAP.
This is what Steve was warning you about. I know you have a choice and a right but is it worth it to you in the long run?
I don't know how to take advice like this. My husband is divorcing me. I wish we could work it out. He has the right to divorce me. I recognize that. He does not have a right to chase me out of town. Am I crazy? I've been abandoned. He won't even speak to me. I understand why he is so upset. I'm not saying he shouldn't be upset. I do think there are other ways to work thru this without rushing into a divorce. I should move away because he doesn't agree?
No it's because your H could be smearing your name and reputation all over town to get back at you. It's not the kind of thing anyone but a great friend would warn you about if they knew. Maybe the second C had heard stories and was warning you.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
