Mr Warrior,

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I am getting advice from people who do not have a live in spouse

Not me buddy – I live with my….uhhh….my…uhhhh….you know, my W.


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I did not come all this way to just say F@ck it.

Neither did I Warrior. Here is the thing....at some point what are we saying f*ck it about? Our M or ourselves?

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Communication lines must stay open for at least my kids sake

Agree 100% with this. They are the victims in all of this...that is if WE AlLOW them to be. Will they feel this - yes. Can we do our best to make it so that they are not totally f*cked up by this - YES!

Warrior - I remember our first convo my friend, you have come a ways....

AND you and I buddy....

we have a ways to go....

Guess what?

It's our ride my friend. ALL our choice.

Eric


"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
"Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans