No she has alot to regain my trust and I know I have to regain hers for the letting the disconnect happen even thogh she let that happen also.
I think that's the standard way to 'fix' these things...
You did not break the trust, she did. While you may be responsible for some things that have contributed to the breakdown in the relationship, it doesn't mean that the two are in any way comparable. If the M takes a path towards reconciliation, then coming to terms with and acknowledging your part will play a role. At this point, it is up to her to earn your trust - and whether you grant it or not is completely your choice.
