I still feel very much tied to what she does but the degree gets less and less as time goes on. Its a process. I know where I need to get and I think by stfu and gal and spending more quality time with the kids I will get there. I wish I was there now.
Me:44 Wife:41 S11: D14 married 20 years bomb 7/25/2010 she filed 7/15/2011 headed for trial in early 2012