Thanks R2C, I'll think about it some more before I reply.
On another note, we are supposed to be hearing from W and her attorney regarding a proposed settlement for the final dissolution of the marriage. We should see that before the court date, which was moved from Oct 12th to Nov 4th, but we have seen nothing.
Should I ask W about it or just let it go. Maybe my L should just contact her L and that avoids any conflict between W and I?
