I think what I need to do when W starts up tonight talking, because she is the one who brings up conversation, is say to her I would not like to talk about things tonight. She makes it this draw out process and then blames me every time for her never getting things done.
You got some good advice on this already I think from Sandi.
Nod your head. If she says something batch!t crazy say
I understand how how you might feel that way.
No arguing.
You're not agreeing either.
Get to a calm place. Get your canoe out of the rapids.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
