I don't see how she could miss me when she os dating a new guy from match.com. I will not be lead on by her when she is dating around. I am worth more than that!
Kerryk, yes, it was another date with salsa girl. I left her place at 5am! lol A lot of talking for a few hours and she was asking questions to try and gauge my interest in her. I told her that I enjoyed going out with her and having fun but I did not want anything serious. Then she mentions that she is in a weird place because she is "kinda seeing" this other guy! haha I was not bothered at all and it removed a lot of pressure from me. So, I think we will continue going out on occasion but that is all.
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
I had a major crush on a girl when I was in the first grade until 4th grade. Her name was DeeDee. I moved away in the 4th grade and never saw her again. I looked her up recently on facebook and she was not so hot anymore. Dang facebook!
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
Today XW texted me today that she wanted to talk to D8,
"Can I talk to D8 for a minute? I have good news for her!"
I thought it could wait, surely?, until tomorrow when she sees the kids again? I thought about it for about 30 minutes and then had D8 call her Mom. Turns out that D8 won a coloring contest at a local pizza place and won an 8 inch pizza. That could have definetly waited I thought. Then 10 minutes later I got another text...
"Don't tell the girls but, Step-grandpa is in the hospital. He has had several small strokes. They plan on keeping him for a few days."
I said I was sorry and asked her what hospital he was in. I also told her that I would say a prayer for him. She thanked me and I left it at that.
I am not sure how to handle this fellow DBers. I plan on going to see him at the hospital but I don't think I am going to start talking to XW about it. I still don't want to talk to her. Am I being stupid here?
Me 35 Wife 34 Two daughters 8 years and 3 years Bomb 3/30/09 W filed 4/16/09 We met in'92 married in 2000 Divorce final
No, you're not being stupid. Go and give him well wishes.
I personally haven't dealt with that but have a friend who just finalized his D and had something like that happen. He went to visit the grandpap (gramps in law) at the hospital.
