A new Start to a bad ending.

[TimeHeals]

"I'm filing for divorce, when the divorce is final, I plan on starting a new relationship with another person. I'm telling you now because I don't want to feel guilty and be labeled a cheater. Regardless of our marriage problems, I have enough respect for you and myself for that matter to not cheat while married."

I'm glad you stick to some decent principles in this example.

I personally find the "I have no self-esteem because my entire self-esteem is derrived from my now-wounded ego, so I am going to start dating while married" a position of low integrity and an example of another kind of weakness.