I am glad to see that you are doing good. One day at a time buddy…
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I have just been keeping my mouth shut and spending time with my kids.
Just a friendly reminder that every time YOU want to say something to YOUR W….remember to pour that LARGE glass of STFU.
Time with the kids – best thing that you can do. For both THEM and YOU.
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Wife participated in none of it.
She is probably NOT going to. It is her way of SHOWING YOU HER boundary. Learn from it. You see HER ACTIONS are speaking FOR HER. YOURS should do the same for YOU.
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I did notice last night that she is reading a new book. Its called For Better or For Worse: Divorce Reconsidered by E. Mavis Hetherington & John Kellyp
I did not read it.
Troy – I would NOT pay any ATTENTION to ANYTHING that she does. The more you LOOK at Her the LESS TIME you spend LOOKING AT YOU. You see, right now you are still looking for a sign from her. When YOU stop looking for a sign – trust me YOU will REALLY begin to feel better.
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This is not a self help book , its a book that lays out the lives of divorced families from before, during and after divorce. but I plan on reading the book in full soon.
Why DO YOU want to read a book about Divorce? I mean really is this something that interest YOU OR are you really trying to get INTO HER head?
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She asked me some questions about our mortgage balance last night and my answers were short and too the point.
When asked questions about finances – be careful. Be honest…but be careful.
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Did not get into anything else so for now I am good.
Are YOU good? You tell me?
Are your feeling tied to WHAT SHE DOES? If so, may not be a good long term receipt for YOU.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
