yes I did coach. I was sick of it. She drank all night until 11:30am the next morning when we were supposed to leave so at 3pm I left without her, expecting her to follow later but she just bailed. So my foot went down, result was bad. 7 weeks ago no hope of reconciling. Now who knows but things are better between us and I have told her she has to fix her current sitch and she promises she will.