Eric,
I am doing good. I have just been keeping my mouth shut and spending time with my kids. I took the kids bowling Friday night,to a big SEC football game Saturday afternoon and then to church on Sunday morning. Wife participated in none of it. I did notice last night that she is reading a new book. Its called
For Better or For Worse: Divorce Reconsidered
by E. Mavis Hetherington & John Kelly

I read the first 100 pages today when I was home for lunch by myself. This is not a self help book , its a book that lays out the lives of divorced families from before, during and after divorce. Maybe some of the other posters are familiar with it but I plan on reading the book in full soon. She asked me some questions about our mortgage balance last night and my answers were short and too the point. Did not get into anything else so for now I am good. I run half marathons and I now recognize that this is going to be like running an ultra marathon without ever training for it. Peace.


Me:44
Wife:41
S11: D14
married 20 years
bomb 7/25/2010
she filed 7/15/2011
headed for trial in early 2012