My two cents. Why would you want to go to dinner with someone
for an anniversary if they want a divorce?

Maybe she's thinking the same thing. Maybe not. Here's the thing, who cares what she's thinking?

There is no other reason for you to go and celebrate with her other than you are hoping for something.

There would be nothing prickish (?) about saying, we could go to dinner sometime as friends, but, no thanks on the dinner for an anniversary.

W, everyone is just looking at for you.

So, I always say when you're not sure in MLC land, go with your gut, not your heart.


Last edited by Brooklyn; 10/19/10 07:18 PM.