Wow. I was hoping that getting my divorce done would start to make my sitch easier, but I can see the drama goes on and on, even after the divorce. I fear I am only a bit behind you in all this.
Just keep remembering, do what feels best for YOU. If you feel better not talking to her, then don't talk. Minor child scheduling issues can easily be handled via text and e-mail, maybe even better. If there is a serious issue with one of your daughters, perhaps then relent, but for normal day to day stuff, there is no need to talk. It irritates my W as well, but that's her problem.
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Funny how all last year I prayed for everyday for her to make contact with me and she never did. She was so wrapped up in her OM. Now I need something for my own mental health and I am hurting the kids. NOW she wants me to talk to HER.
I could have written exactly that, word for word.
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I still hear "me me me me me" from her.
That too.
You're doing great v1olin. Right now it sounds like your W is lonely, and wants that little fix of v1olin to make herself feel better.
