i tried for months and she NEVER has been open with what she did or nor did she answer any of the questions i needed answered for me. I remember how she treated me and the nasty things she told me over the course of her 5 or 6 month trist with another man.
i tried to get her to councling and she refused...it is just a combination of every thing over the past 7 or 8 months that i have come to realize that i personally will not ever get past. I have not been able to forgive her for what she did to our family.
i know i have a tough choice ahead of me, and i am not sure what i am going to do....but i do know that i can't continue to lie to myself and say things will be ok with her.
turning to another man for a physical relationship is not the answer and i think she regets what she did only because she was found out.
as for me...i am in a oddly calm state of mind about this...i have learned a ton about myself through out this and know that i will be okay whatever the outcome.
hope i answered any questions you all may have had....i will check back in a few to see if there are any more.
best of luck to all of you!
Gman
M-37 W-36 S-11, S-9, D-4 PA exposed 3/13/10 10/19/10 moving on... most up to date sit
