Sandi, I never even HEARD the word "exposure" until I started posting here. That is your all's term, not mine. I think I posted about telling the truth to your adult children, and the OP's spouse, and not lying to cover up their adultry.

In any event, I'm bowing out.

Starsky

M57 W 57; D30 D28 S24 S20 GD7 GD2 GD1 GD5m GD1m
BD 5/07; W's affair 5/07-8/07

At the end of every hard-earned day, people gotta find some reason to believe. (Bruce Springsteen)