I will never understand why there is always a sizable percentage of people here who openly advocate not having or enforcing basic, healthy boundaries.
It's like there is a contingent of open advocates for codependency.
In the limited time that I've been here (and I read more than just this one forum, as I'm still not sure if my wife is in MLC, having an affair, or just a WAW), what I have read mostly are people that SAY they're all for "enforcing boundaries," but when someone actually specifically ADVOCATES doing JUST THAT, they get hooted down.
To paraphrase that great marriage expert Jerry Seinfeld, "I'm pretty sure that the ENFORCING of the boundary is the most important PART OF the boundary."
